Patiala, June 5- Discipline, obedience, hard work, honesty, loyalty and positive thinking, self-confidence, high spirits, good health, fitness and good health are very important in childhood to achieve success, respect, happiness, progress and good position in life. Knowledge about these, thoughts, feelings, habits and environment can be obtained only through good elders, parents, teachers and friends.
Understanding of good habits, customs, manners, duties and customs can be obtained only when good elders, parents, teachers, friends and environment are found in childhood, then the person does not go astray in youth. Knowledge and habits of these miraculous, effective activities start from elderly grandparents and mothers in families, but in today's time grandparents are not present in families at all, if they are present, then no respect is given to their conversation.
Most of the mothers do not consider themselves responsible, loyal, disciplined, polite, tolerant, patient, calm, hardworking because they only try to fulfill their own happiness, desires, facilities, comfort, fashion and conversation. In many families, fathers are also not polite, tolerant, patient, calm, virtuous, disciplined, have good habits, feelings and thoughts.
In Punjab, consumption of drugs and alcohol in front of children, minors and youth is common in parties, happiness and sadness times, due to which parents fight in front of children and elders in families. Dirty words are spoken. Due to which parents often get divorced. Mothers leave their parents because they are more concerned about their own respect and desires than their children. Which has the worst effect on the children.
If children cannot tell anyone about their pain, suffering and insult, then those children, being minors, get trapped in the cycle of bad friends and become victims of drug addiction, crime and bad thinking. Even in schools, teachers instead of understanding children are busy in teaching them forcefully, completing their syllabus tasks and activities and do not have time or thought to understand the pain, suffering, insults, troubles and sad faces of children but are busy in the race to get maximum marks.
This is the reason that today children, minors and young boys and girls are moving away from discipline, obedience, humility, tolerance, patience, peace, hard work and honesty. Their hearts, minds, feelings, thoughts, fear, respect, reverence and hunger to learn and understand have disappeared.
Smile, patriotism, truth, satisfaction, gratitude, humility, tolerance, patience, peace and sweet speech are disappearing on the faces of children and anger, ego, hatred, violence, tension and troubles are shining more and more, but no parent, teacher, relative or neighbor pays attention to the children.
Today the need is not for more marks but for more happiness, joy, satisfaction, gratitude, humility, tolerance, patience, peace, which are not discussed in any book, scripture or constitution of rules, laws, principles or doctrines.