Patiala- A film actor from Punjab said that when he lived in the village with his family, he used to respect every elder and woman of the village as uncle, aunt, or chacha, and used to touch the feet of all the elders. Children, youth, and daughters-in-law were also very afraid of them. When the feet were touched, the elders would bow their heads with love and respect and give blessings and prayers.
Parents and elders, while telling stories of gurus, avatars, sages, and sages, used to say that blessings, prayers, gratitude, humility, tolerance, and sweet words bring prosperity, progress, and blessings in life, home, and business. Everyone also helps in times of crisis.
Before going to school, they used to go home and touch the feet of the elders of the family, parents. Before entering the school, they would bow down at the gate and touch the feet of all the teachers.
Whenever food was prepared in the house, everyone would sit on the ground and thank God and eat it. Food and water were never left behind because this disrespected the God of food and water. Fresh food was prepared and served to cows, dogs and everyone who came from outside.
At night, everyone would sleep in the courtyard or in the houses, sleeping only after listening to the stories of the elders, gurus, avatars, sages, sages, fairies, Ramayana, Mahabharata and the stories of the gurus.
At night, if someone coughed or sneezed, everyone would get up and help them. During the marriage of a girl or boy in the village, all the villagers would help. The guests were accommodated in their own homes. After the marriage, when the girl came to the village with her husband, all the villagers would honor the girl and her son-in-law. That is, the village was like a family.
When someone was sick, all the villagers would go to get news and would also take fruits, food and water with them. When the parents went to the house of their daughter's in-laws, they would not even drink the water of that house, they would just sit for 30/40 minutes and ask about their health and return.
Because they did not have any quarrel with the daughter's in-laws, but respected them. When they met each other, they felt the joy and respect of each other. Due to which there was a desire to meet each other, write letters, call each other, but in today's time, when relatives, neighbors and unknown people meet, instead of love and respect, hatred and incompleteness are felt in the hearts, minds, feelings, thoughts of people, children and youth.
The actor said that he went to Bombay. After the death of his father, he took his mother from the village to Bombay. He gave his mother a room to sleep in. During the day, his mother would sit with everyone and talk. The actor's educated wife and children rarely sat with their mother, so the mother would sit in her room and meditate, while the children would watch television.
The actor said that one morning when the mother did not come out of her room, he opened the door and saw that the mother was dead. She may have been distressed at night, coughed, screamed or made noises, but the mother's screams could not reach the other rooms through the walls of the rooms of the house. 
Due to the lack of compassion, respect, honor, and love, no one even wakes up to see someone sleeping. Today, people have good houses and houses, but all of them are stuck in their own closed rooms like prisoners, who have no compassion, respect, honor, feeling of cooperation, thoughts, habits even for their own family members. In the neighborhoods and colonies, no one knows anyone or does not cooperate. Families celebrate their own programs in closed rooms.
Only a few, relationships are being played out as a show due to sorrow. As long as there is no love, compassion, respect, honor and dignity towards others in the heart, mind, feelings, thoughts and habits of the environment, no one becomes a helpful friend in times of trouble, while the numbers of thousands of friends, relatives and neighbors are saved in mobile phones.