'You have to change yourself for the child' Divorce has become a common thing among young people drifting in the blind race of modernity. Mutual disputes and quarrels end in divorce. In this, the woman definitely loses, because the responsibility of her child also falls on her. In more than 90 percent of divorce cases, women take the responsibility of raising the children. The court also helps them in this matter. It is believed that the responsibility of raising women's children belongs to men. Well can do. Single motherhood is very common in today's times where not only the emotional but also the financial responsibility of the child falls on the woman's shoulders. Being a single mother is a challenging task as both mother and father have responsibility. on his shoulder. However, with a little wisdom and awareness, you can be a great mom. Today we are going to tell our readers about some such things, which if a mother keeps in mind, she can become a good mother and partner to her children. Let's take a look - bond A single mother has to give her child the love of both mother and father. In such a situation, it is important for you to bond with your child. To bond with the child, love him a lot, talk to him, play with him and if possible try to build a relationship with him like a friend. So that he can tell you everything on his mind without any hesitation. Keep thinking positive As a single mother you have double responsibility, in such a situation you should always keep your thinking positive. No matter how bad or angry your day at the office is, you always have to stay calm and positive because when you come back to your child in the evening, you have to give them full time. As a single mother, you must always remember that no third person will come between you and your child. Fill your heart with faith. Never let your child feel poor and don't use catchphrases in your conversation whether your father was there today or even accidentally. This is how fatherless children are. Instill in your child the belief that they are in no way less than children. If the other person also tries to make you feel inferior, firmly tell them that we are fine as we are and enjoying life. Establish Rules and Boundaries During joint parenting arrangements, it's easy to forget that you're the adult and they're the child. The best path to co-parenting is to establish rules and boundaries for your children and the ex-partner involved. You have to create rules and guidelines that are acceptable to everyone. The most important thing is that it makes life easy and convenient for your children. It should also be clear what kind of behavior you expect from your children and what kind of behavior you expect from your ex or anyone involved in their life. Learn to Respond Often single mothers find themselves helpless to protect their children from people's rude and unwanted questions. When other children ask where your father is or why your father is not with you or at school events. Children become anxious about why he does not come to school or parent-teacher meetings. If the single mother explains the situation to the children through stories or examples from the beginning, it will be easier for the children to answer such questions. The child begins to feel confident. It is important to say no. Everyone knows that women are more emotional than men. It is also the biggest problem for single mothers. A single mother is unable to say no to her child because of her stubbornness. Its biggest side effect is that the child's stubbornness increases. Not only this, sometimes the children cry to get their point across and the mother also says yes to convince them. In such a situation, sometimes a single mother has to accept her child's insistence unwillingly. Therefore, it is very important not to involve the child in wrong activities. Give time to the baby As a single mother, you have the responsibilities of both parents. In such a case, it is important for you to give them time. If you are very busy with office work, still the child can come if needed. If R calls you, be present at that time. This will increase the feeling of love between you and the child. Due to emotional feelings, the child will not only obey your words, but also try to discipline, so that people will praise his mother. Teach Time Management Someone said that anyone who has earned many degrees but has not learned time management has accomplished nothing in life. Schedule the child's school, tuition, meals and playtime.